Sil Lai Abrams is an award-winning writer and nationally recognized gender violence activist. A survivor of domestic and sexual violence, she has dedicated her life to challenging the root causes of power-based violence and helping others navigate their own healing journeys. A thought leader on media accountability and issues affecting women of color, Sil Lai has appeared on major news networks and contributed to publications such as The Daily Beast, Marie Claire, and The Hollywood Reporter. Sil Lai is also the author of two books, including the critically acclaimed memoir Black Lotus: A Woman’s Search for Racial Identity. She is currently working on a book for sexual assault survivors slated for publication in 2027 by Penguin Random House. A proud 2021 graduate of Bryn Mawr College, she resides in New York City.